Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.
–Proverbs 16:18
People often talk about the role sex plays in motivating behavior. But the power of ego to determine history is often more profound.
Consider the role that ego played in igniting the American Civil War (1861 – 1865).
According to The Destructive War, by Charles Royster, it wasn’t the cause of “states’ rights” that led 13 Southern states to withdraw from the Union in 1960-61.
It was their demand for “respect,” which, in reality, translates into “e-g-o.”
“The respect Southerners demanded did not consist simply of the states’ sovereignty or of the equal rights of Northern and Southern citizens, including slaveholders’ right to take their chattels into Northern territory.
“It entailed, too, respect for their assertion of the moral superiority of slaveholding society over free society,” writes Royster.
It was not enough for Southerners to claim equal standing with Northerners; Northerners must acknowledge it.
But this was something that the North was less and less willing to do. Finally, its citizens dared to elect Abraham Lincoln in 1860.
Lincoln and his new Republican party damned slavery–and slaveholders–as morally evil, obsolete and ultimately doomed.
And they were determined to prevent slavery from spreading any further throughout the country.
Southerners found all of this intolerable.
The British author, Anthony Trollope, explained to his readers:
“It is no light thing to be told daily, by our fellow citizens…that you are guilty of the one damning sin that cannot be forgiven.
“All this [Southerners] could partly moderate, partly rebuke and partly bear as long as political power remained in their hands.
“But they have gradually felt that this was going, and were prepared to cut the rope and run as soon as it was gone.”
Only 10% of Southerners owned slaves. The other 90% of the population “had no dog in this fight,” as Southerners liked to say.
Yet they so admired and aspired to be like their “gentleman betters” that they threw in their lot with them.
There were some Southerners who could see what was coming–and vainly warned their fellow citizens.
One of these was Sam Houston, the man who had won Texas independence at the 1836 battle of San Jacinto and later served as that state’s governor.
Sam Houston
On April 19, 1860, addressing a crowd in Galveston, he said:
“Let me tell you what is coming. After the sacrifice of countless millions of treasure and hundreds of thousands of lives, you may win Southern independence if God be not against you.
“But I doubt it.
“I tell you that, while I believe with you in the doctrine of states’ rights, the North is determined to preserve this Union. They are not a fiery, impulsive people as you are, for they live in colder climates.
“But when they begin to move in a given direction, they move with the steady momentum and perseverance of a mighty avalanche; and what I fear is, they will overwhelm the South.”
Four years later, on April 9, 1865, Houston’s warning became history.
Confederate General Robert E. Lee surrendered the Army of Northern Virginia to Union General Ulysses S. Grant at Appomattox Courthouse.
Huge sections of the South had been laid waste by Union troops and more than 258,000 Southerners had been killed.
The South had paid an expensive price for its fixation on ego.
Even more proved at risk a century later, when President John F. Kennedy faced off with Soviet Premier Nikita Khrushchev.
In April, Kennedy had been humiliated at the Bay of Pigs when a CIA-sponsored invasion failed to overthrow the Cuba’s Fidel Castro.
So he was already on the defensive when he and Khrushchev met in Vienna.
Khrushchev pressed his advantage, threatening Kennedy with nuclear war unless the Americans abandoned their protection of West Berlin.
That August, faced with the embarrassment of East Berliners fleeing by the thousands into West Germany, the Soviet leader backed off from his threat.
In its place, he erected the infamous Berlin Wall, sealing off East and West Berlin.
Kennedy’s reaction: “That son of a bitch won’t pay any attention to words. He has to see you move.”
Then, most ominously: “If Khrushchev wants to rub my nose in the dirt, it’s all over.”
In short: Kennedy was prepared to incinerate the planet if he felt his almighty ego was about to get smacked.
Nuclear missile in silo
What has proved true for states and nations proves equally true for those leading every other type of institution.
Although most people like to believe they are guided by rationality and morality, all-too-often, what truly decides the course of events is their ego.
For pre-Civil War Southerners, it meant demanding that “Yankees” show respect for slave-owning society. Otherwise, they would leave the Union.
For Kennedy, it meant playing a game of “chicken,” backed up with nuclear missiles, to show Khrushchev who Numero Uno really was.
It is well to keep these lessons from history in mind when making our own major decisions.
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BOOBS AND BUREAUCRATS
In Bureaucracy, Social commentary on March 4, 2013 at 12:19 amThose who watched the 85th Academy Awards on February 24 witnessed some truly moving episodes:
But these wonderful episodes were proceeded by one that wasn’t so wonderful:
We saw your boobs
We saw your boobs
In the movie that we saw, we saw your boobs.
Meryl Streep, we saw your boobs in “Silkwood”
Naomi Watts’ in “Mulholland Drive”
Angelina Jolie, we saw your boobs in “Gia”
They made us feel excited and alive.
Yes, that was Seth MacFarlane’s opening number as host of the show.
As he danced and “sang” across the stage,, no doubt many viewers were stunned by the sheer juvenile antics of the segment. It was is if a classroom of junior high-school boys had been turned loose to “honor” the actresses they most wanted to boff.
Anne Hathaway, we saw your boobs in “Brokeback Mountain”
Halle Berry, we saw them in “Monster’s Ball”
Nicole Kidman in “Eyes Wide Shut”
Marisa Tomei in “The Wrestler,” but
We haven’t seen Jennifer Lawrence’s boobs at all.
Making it all the more bizarre: MacFarlane was accompanied by the Los Angeles Gay Men’s Chorus. For this group, the lyrics “We Saw Your Butt” would have been far more appropriate.
Here was a group of tuxedo-wearing men, supposedly paying tribute show to the greatest actresses in today’s Hollywood. So what did they “pay tribute” to?
The actresses’ singing talent?
Their acting talent?
Their greatest roles?
Don’t be stupid.
What the song failed to mention, however, was that several of the actress’ topless moments occurred during rape scenes.
Actress Jane Fonda–no stranger to sexually-alluring films–offered a scathing commentary on her website:
“I agree with someone who said, ‘If they want to stoop to that, why not list all the penises we’ve seen?’
“Better yet, remember that this is a telecast seen around the world watched by families with their children and to many this is neither appropriate or funny.”
So the question naturally arises: Why didn’t this occur to the men–and Hollywood is still almost entirely a man’s world–planning the 2013 Oscars?
This is, after all, Hollywood’s most important show. Those who oversee this event must decide:
Given the time and effort devoted to making this “Hollywood’s finest hour,” someone should have said: “This is a disgusting skit that will offend every actress at the ceremony–and God knows how many viewers!”
Many reviewers of the Oscars ceremony have put the blame entirely on MacFarlane. After all, the “humor” of the song was very much in keeping with the offensive material found in his comedy series, Family Guy.
One Family Guy show featured a musican number called “Down’s Syndrone Girl.” Among its lyrics:
You wanna take that little whore
And spin her on the dancing floor,
But boy, before you do a single twirl,
You must impress that effervescing,
Self-possessing, no BS-ing
Down’s Syndrome girl.
Click here: Family guy – that down syndrome girl – YouTube
But the Oscars isn’t a one-man show. It’s a huge assembly of talent–singers, dancers, choreographers, lighting technicians, makeup artists, special effects masters.
Not to mention a parade of distinguished actors, singers and directors chosen to present awards to those who are to be honored.
Any number of these people could have spoken up and said: “I refuse to be a part of a show that disgraces itself in this way.”
But if any one person must assume final blame for this number, it’s Howard Winchel “Hawk” Koch, Jr., the president of the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences.
Koch is a movie producer and assistant director, and the former road manager for the musical groups The Dave Clark Five and The Supremes.
Among the film successes with which he’s been involved: The Way We Were (1973); Chinatown (1974); Marathon Man (1976); Heaven Can Wait (1978).
Clearly the instincts that brought him so far through the entertainment business utterly failed him at the 2013 Oscars.
So, ultimately, the buck has to stop with Koch. But everyone else who held a supervisory position with the event stands equally guilty.
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